Filling the Void
By Anthony
Acevedo
When I started
college, I had baggage. Worse yet, I was yearning for something I had lost in
my recent past, prior to starting college—my faith. In actuality, it’s three
things though: faith, hope, and love; but the greatest is love. And I couldn’t
grasp the difference between going along with a crowd and who I was. I knew
something was missing, and I knew things going on around me were wrong too, but
my mind was a soup of mulch.
My experience was
one of confusion, as I had little direction. Most of that is attributed to my
own indecision on what to do with myself though. There was also a lack of
confidence and even assurance that I was on the right path. However, that even
applies to my search. Right now I am
a born again Christian. But before I made that choice, I did not know how to
even seek answers to a lot of the difficult questions I had. Nor did I feel I
was the man I was supposed to be. I felt eerily like internally I was set on a
dark path, unable to rectify iniquities of my character.
The uniqueness of
Jesus Christ is that He doesn’t fit into a box; living and fluid in how He
directs us via the Holy Spirit. Jesus commands us to love God and to treat
others as we’d treat ourselves. This is how we are to live out a life with
Christ Jesus. Love God and love your neighbor. Prayer is simple, but at times
difficult. Neglecting our relationship with God can be painful.
Neglecting our
relationship with God is painful because it’s like running a marathon without
drinking water. Dehydration quenches the Holy Spirit and our heart becomes
disheveled. We’ll lose hope and possibly more. It depends on the extent to
which we were to choose this and “where we’re at” or our understanding of
Christ too. Also, quenching the Holy Spirit, if prolonged, can lead to being
lost again. It’s like being stressed versus depressed; being stressed is like the
common cold but being depressed is like the flu or influenza. Another way to
understand it is a recession lasts short period of time (an economy busts but
only for a few months) versus a depression which is for a prolonged period of
time.
However, following
Jesus is a narrow path, and that’s a good thing. Because I couldn’t follow
Jesus today as the same man I was when I first started college. That guy had
more baggage than I have today. Why’s that though? As I sought Christ more,
there were things happening in my heart, that were changing un-be-knownst to me
consciously. Over time I would discover each thing consciously and that I
agreed with Jesus’ teachings more. Soon I even understood the aspects of
nurturing a personal relationship with Him. The question ultimately became do I
really believe in Him?
The delivery system
through that time, as Christians that loved Jesus on a personal level, would be
through love. Only through love can the Gospel be shared and received. Only
through love can life with Christ Jesus be lived out.
I know there’s a
lot that seems contradictory or even confusing based off of preconceptions. I
implore you to consider something. Out of all the people that genuinely love
Jesus and live out a personal relationship with Him, I’ve never met anyone who
stated they regret loving Jesus. Loving Jesus is an active thing and believing
in Him is a passive thing. Both are needed to be in the company of Christ, ergo
being a Christian (which translates to in
the company of Christ) is all about.
To clarify some may
claim to love Jesus but as a fan, not in a relationship where they’ll commune
with Him (or the father). That’s usually due to lack of belief somewhere. However,
there’s also some who may just commune but may not understand the Bible. Then
there’s just believing in Him, but it’s more religious and there’s not a
nine-inch difference with the heart. The latter can be more painful because
there maybe a quenching of the Holy Spirit in that person’s life. Quenching of
the Spirit may even be in such a way that there’s just no active growth, that
person may go to church but again fail to make the changes in their heart.
Truth is, we have no ability to make the changes ourselves without God. Pride
does not mix with God or living out a life with Him.
Either way, even if the person is completely unsaved and
doesn’t believe, it could be a completely contradictory lifestyle too, God
commands you and me to love that person on par with how He loves us all.
That means, without
condition, God wants us to be willing to be used to share His message of
love—Jesus died for all our sins, because God loves us all. However, just like
telling that special someone you love them, God builds to it with us in our
search. Maybe that person at work or school needs a friend. Maybe they need
someone to just listen to them. Maybe they do need some intercession. Maybe by
offering someone you know to God in prayer, what ever the need, is important.
Often prayer for people is a stepping stone. Maybe God uses us or maybe He’ll
use another to water the seeds. Either way, prayer is critical not just for
ourselves and our relationship with Jesus, but crucial in relations with others
too. Especially when sharing the Gospel.
I can’t tell how
many times I prayed and the prayer not only worked to prepare my heart but the
other person’s too. Prayer is the air we breathe and God’s word is the
lifeblood of a Christian’s life. Prayer is not a repetitive thing or redundancy
of some saying. It’s not a religious thing. Prayer with Jesus is a
communication with God. It’s apart of that personal relationship with Him. What
it means is just honestly opening up our hearts to God.
God’s word (the
Bible) is a living breathing way to hear God’s voice (sometimes we as believers
can “feel Him” in prayer too, but that’s different conversation. Just be honest
and open your heart. Ask, be patient, and you’ll receive.) His word is
spiritual food that digests and is spread throughout our body. And not just our
own Spiritual self but even our body or the body of Christ (meaning collection
of believers we’re apart of). There’s a lot God has confirmed in His word to
myself and others in our walks. Even me, I can be a schmuck sometimes. Perhaps
God is trying to tell me something but maybe I’m being too dense. Jonah could
not prevent God’s will nor can I, no matter how dense or cowardly we can be. God
still loves us and by the Holy Spirit’s presence we cannot ignore Him. For
those not sure in belief or love toward Christ: don’t run from Jesus, run
toward Him. Even if you’re not sure, start small. And for those who are saved:
we have to ask God to prune us first before we help our neighbor (don’t be a
hypocrite), and be patient. God expects us to treat our neighbors with love,
but also be humble. Be humble for there is never a prideful servant of the
Lord, not in truth. Some may be prideful or have iniquity peak over onto
brother or sister, but that is their failing in their relationship with Christ
Jesus. They need prayer because a labor that does not do the work in the fields
they were asked to do risks losing their job. How can a farmer keep a farm hand
employed if they refuse to do certain tasks the way instructed? Or worse yet if
they mistreat their co-workers? Truth is the Farmer with a stubborn worker who
wants to do things their way or worse mistreats co-workers, cannot use those
workers to get the work done that he needs done. God is the same way; He
resists the proud, because He cannot use them. They insist on themselves, not
God’s love.
Jesus used several
parables, one included the servant who had a debt redeemed by his master and
was forgiven. However, the same servant had another servant owe him a debt.
Instead of forgiving the debt like the master did to him, he beat the other
servant up. This is much like how some misbehave; they’ll mistreat other
servants or people. (Even in subtle passive aggressive ways, manipulating
people in a negative way just to get what we want from them—even for something
small like attention—is wrong. Small wrongs unchecked leave windows open for
larger issues. And it hurts others involved too. Honesty before God, in our alone time, and
making the nine-inch difference between head & heart [pruning the heart]
are paramount to applying His changes to our lives.)
Our master is God and He loves us unconditionally. That’s a
true example or standard to live by.
The void in my life is filled by the
message of love that Jesus’ sacrifice represents. So too does God’s every
action, even after creating us. What people often forget are two things: (1)
Our choices can force God’s hand, often in a negative way or even defer what
good He has, (2) God didn’t originally create this earth, this earth is the
result of the fall from grace after Adam and Eve ate of the fruit. Another way
to look at it is this phrase: “99.9% of the evil on earth is by man, the other
.1% is the other guy down stairs.” That’s an original, but according to God’s
word it’s true. When ever God’s creation, man, got out of control with various
evils He’d be forced to take action. Evil is opposite to who God is. God, as
difficult to imagine, has had mercy on the devil himself too. That’s part of
why the devil is defeated and judged last. And the book of Revelation means
that not only does Jesus win in the end, but there’ll be a new heaven and
earth. Also take into consideration this, the devil’s fall from heaven took 1/3
of the angels with him. And statistically, 1/3 of the world’s population is
considered Christian. I find this fascinating (maybe we’re meant to replace
those angels lost?), but in all honesty also sad. I do feel pity for those that
do not know Jesus as savior, but even on a personal level too. However, I won’t
divulge into that, instead I wanted to express that it seems to me that God the
Father most definitely has had His reasons for still putting up with us after
all this time, for sending His only Son to pay a debt we never could on our
own, and to ultimately defeat the one enemy we always had (though sometimes we
are our worst enemy too, but He prunes us to be more like Him)—God loves us.
How much? It’s enough to fill any void a person could have. Given the time by
that person, by that person’s whole hearted choice, God can move mountains too.
No matter what troubles they are, He can do it.
